avoiding the past

so, the second visit - this time, we are hoping to have a some genuine time away - just the three of us....

we have been reminded time and again, that we must proceed slowly, to gain his trust and comfort before we bring him to our home.... he has has unsucessful placements in the past and they want to avoid that....

this is very difficult for someone like me who likes to make a snap decision, after feeling it is the right thing to do....

all we really want is to have him here, helping him grow....